Please do not say that your back is killing you. Do you want your back to kill you? Do you want your feet to kill you? If we create our realities with our thoughts... Mathew used this expression until he used it with a friend. He told his friend Janet that a friend of his was all excited because he was collecting unenjoyment insurance and what he said was so funny that it was killing him. When he said it, she cringed. It was a cringe that approached recoiling in horror. So Mathew began to think about this...