this is actually an excerpt from a message i sent to a tribe sister earlier, but always willing and wanting to share and receive the Message with others!

i wasn't sure what to call this post, because parts of it seem a little too specific of a response to a message that only i have read; but, in reading it again and making some minor edits, i realized that it really doesn't matter. each of us will add on to and gather what we must in continuing on in our various soulPaths.

so, read on and add on, MaBrethren!

Eternal Love and Light!

You are absolutely beautiful in all that you do, Sister. really. there is no need to apologize for expressing areas of your life that you have found difficulty in maintaining Balance in. in fact, i cherish your honesty by revealing the parts of yourSelf that may require extra attention in order to attain the enlightenment you seek. i am not Here to judge anyOne for sharing anything that is True to the stage that We are in at the Moment.

yay for the Universal in CAPITAL LETTERS. teehehee! :)

anyWay...i am Here for You. allWays.
i think you know what you need when it comes to your intimate relationships with others, whether they be family, friends, or lovers. the important thing to remember is to never put any other person above your Self. you can idealize all you want to, in my opinion, as long as your idealizations are not anything other than True Reflections of your Being in another. there are so many opportunities for us to forget that it is You looking back thru the eyes of the ones you truly connect with. the attraction is not coincidental. we like people because we recognize a part of ourSelves in them. that Oneness....all these things we already know, but don't always get the chance to talk about or know how to express. but it's all there. Here. waiting to be discovered. baby step by baby step if that's the distance we make in whatever Time it takes. just so long as we're Moving...sometimes in leaps and bounds when we're happiest. most people find the movement fastest when we are in love. but, we forget to fall in love with ourSelf before anything else... Our self. My self. the We self. again, completing the circle. what can sometimes make our growth stagnant is in losing our identity by feeding the traumas of others when what they really need is someone to give them loving support, but not to indulge or nourish the parasites within by letting them feed on you too.

it took me over a year of serious devotion to my SoulSelf growth to get to this place (and a most seriously huge exponential shot upward in just the last two months), with a list of years and lifetimes before that to reconcile my own traumas (and still reconciling!). i was in no place of healing, to spread the Light to others, before This. and that is nothing to have regret for, either. we cannot save the world until we save ourSelves. if we are truly Seeking, we shall truly Discover. and then to share our Discoveries with All...

as far as lovers go, i am in an open relationship. as scary as it sounds to share your lover with another, it's one of the biggest blessings in this life, i've discovered. you can read my post about it on the polyamory tribe, or somewhere under my 'last dance' module in my profile. it basically comes down to having the ability to share your love more easily with others--to not view the rest of the world as being on the other side of this invisible line we are so often programmed to make when we are in a relationship. the physical act of sex is not something i seek in others, but to share the sexual Energy that is inherent to our physical being is so vital to our spiritual expansion. i do not believe there should be a separartion here, even though some religions create strict distinctions between our sexual energy and our godSelf energy, making us believe that one inhibits the other. an overindulgence or hinderance of either one seems detrimental to achieving holistic Soul Growth. the third eye activation in our pineal gland is directly correlated to our energy flow through the seven basic chakras in the body, with the root chakra (our sex chakra) acting as the grounding force, the baseline. denying the connection of our root to our brow is hindering the energy flow that is vital to our Development. in biological terms, we are organisms that can only evolve and procreate through sexual reproduction. our sexual energy and the act of sex itself is in alignment with our Creator Self. simply sharing physical contact with others is vital to our Happiness. it is part of our grounding force. how many times can you remember getting a really warm and loving embrace from someone, and feeling completely rejuvenated and alive from it? a hug! they're so powerful! full on heart chakra contact! being able to cuddle with friends or share kisses or hold hands...to feel and share love easily, and to express it verbally to All when we see it... all the good stuff that most of us deny to ourselves (myself, yourself, other selves) unless we are in a committed relationship with someone. all these things are just too precious to indulge in sparingly. i feel so honored, humbled, and blessed in learning and sharing, Like This...

i could go on an on about all these things....soul love rambling strings!
i love just being able to share this kind of space with others.
to not judge myself or judge others.
to make people feel safe for being open and sensitive.
it's a blessing.
it makes me cry tears of joy often!
and without shame.
to play hide and seek with our closest allies (MeYouWe) is child's play--but in the wrong context!...it's a painful game when we realize that when we're playing it, we're only playing games with ourSelf. we can only pretend for so long when we hide from Me...yah. i'll just cover my eyes and Eye won't know i'm there...it just silly!
yep.
and so?
i giggle a lot.
and skip.
and blow bubbles....
n' make up fairytales....
getting that third eye gland to soften up as it did before the age of seven
before domestication brought us far from heaven
making us forget that it still and always will remain within...

Loving All My Bromamas!
bLisstening,
iscah